Ok. I am not quite a slob. But I do have a problem with organizing and putting away my stuff.
And it isn't fair to Wife, who desparately wants a neat and tidy house, to have to guess where to put my stuff so that I can find it again when I need it. We communicate pretty well. And after 15 years of marriage, I have a good idea of how she thinks about some things. So I can usually find things after 10-20 minutes of looking.
But I need to do a better job of sorting, filing, putting away or throwing away. Instead of just laying everything on a flat space that is convenient.